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Hi Cherry,–love this video!! I have recently done the exact thing. We have been off and on for the last 1.5 years. We go three months and one of us screws it up, him needing space and breaking contact or me going "nuts" on him for not giving me what I think I need. This last time we got back together, I swore I would play it cool with this guy who was upfront about not wanting a full relationship (we both have said marriage and kids is not a goal)–problem is we were in a relationship even with no label. I thought I was fine with this—what I realized is I wanted a committment from him–one that was even if we had an arguement or something–he wouldn't run. Well, he had been staying at my place for a bit while he was in between places. I was fine with that at first. It was nice having him around etc. Well, you could tell we were spending way to much time together and we started to get on each other's nerves. He suggested he should leave so we wouldn't end up in a stupid arguement—I didn't want him to go–the plan was for only a few more days anyway. Well, I got really upset that he was leaving–he said mean things, I said mean things—. He left with the "don't contact me again" as his last words to me. Since has removed me as a friend on FB (I know, does that really matter). It has been a week of no contact. In the past, I would blow up his phone. The last time, I made a point to only email, text or VM just a few times. After a few days of no response, I stopped all together. He contacted me after about 3 weeks, apologizing for his silent treatment (he basically fell off the face of the earth; he was not asking to get back together). A few days later, we picked up where we left off with daily communicating and seeing each other….really as if nothing had happened.Deep down I think this is the guy for me, I think our biggest problem is my insecurities and he just runs when things get a little tough. Me, I like to talk things out–like most girls. Every relationship has issues and is not perfect. How do I apologize for what happened and let him know I am sorry. I want "a relationship with him". I have always gone after him–meaning I have at least contacted him in someway so he knows the door is open. This time, because of no contact—-I don't feel like he knows the door is open. |
