Thrilled by dating Equality through dating Foreplay Sublimated desires Keep your sense of humour The crooked path to where we are Alternative therapy The subjection of women My experience of taking my wife in hand I honestly--so far--prefer to be on the bottom, but my guy likes to watch me one top just as much as he likes to do missionary. But as long as he keeps his hands on me somewhere I am pretty happily with just about anything.
by a Taken In Hand reader on 2006 Jan 4 - 20:04 | reply to this comment
I Agree!
I kind of agree with this. While it is fun to dissect our behaviours and talk about them, and such discussions to help in self-discovery in some way, I wonder what does it matter? I like being on top because I have a different control of angle and depth, and when I (or he) manipulate my breasts it feels quite different from when I am lying on my back (as does 'doggy' style feel different). Sex discussed on this level is just discussing simple animal behaviours and how to increase the pleasure response. To add the psychology element hints at a desire to transcend the animal urges. So why not take up yoga and meditation, learn about using tantra to release the kundilini energies and learn through experience what a real!!!! orgasm is like. (a bagillion times more intense than any g-spot experience I ever had!) Peace. Joni
by Joni: a reader on 2006 Jan 21 - 17:46 | reply to this comment
Missionary
I agree that the missionary position is a dominating one and that it emphasises the submission of the woman. For these reasons it is our favourite position although we do enjoy a number of other positions. I love to turn Megan over onto her back pull down her pyjamas or pull up her nighty and penetrate her without foreplay. She knows that it is her role to allow this and she willingly submits. Sometimes we make love like this for hours sometimes it is brief and i achieve my satisfaction quickly. She often does not orgasm and indeed i often deliberatley deprive her of this for ages. She loves the feeling of being used (although it is consenual) and I enjoy using her in this way.
